Disability Studies Program student Melissa Parent got straight down to business shortly after registering at the University of Windsor, taking her interests and talents to Family Respite Services (FRS) Windsor and Essex County on a part-time basis – an experience she calls life-changing.

FRS works in partnership with families who have children with disabilities. The organization coordinates support and provides short breaks that strengthen families and contribute to children having meaningful lives in their community.

For the past five years Melissa has been a Direct Support Provider for a little girl named Suma – taking her to visit the park, library, riverfront and other interesting locations in the community. The pair work on social skills through play-based activities and social outings that help Suma make new friends.

“I am in awe of how much Suma has changed over the years,” Melissa says.

“She has made so many gains in all aspects of life. When I first started working with her she had limited ways to express herself. Five years later, after lots of determination and tools that I have learned through school, we have worked on ways in which she can seek out a conversation and express her thoughts, feelings, her likes and dislikes.” 

Alexandria Fischer, Community Relations officer with Family Respite Services, says respite providers are paid individuals who can be positive role models, community connectors, and enjoy providing important personal support to children with disabilities. She says students with career goals in such fields as social work, nursing, teaching, and child care often find that respite services are an excellent way to gain field experience and make a valuable contribution to the community.

Melissa says the experience has helped her grow as a person both personally and professionally.

“Being a Direct Support Provider has been an awesome experience that I plan to continue throughout my life. The University of Windsor and Family Respite Services has provided me with so many opportunities that I am grateful for. I treasure my time with Suma and I encourage everyone to take this opportunity…the children are counting on us.”

For more information on becoming a respite provider visit www.familyrespite.org, or connect with FRS directly at info@familyrespite.org, or 519-972-9688 x 156